Since 1978, Judith Martin's Miss Manners column—carried in more than 200 newspapers and digital outlets—has chronicled the rise and fall of American manners.

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Dec 17, 2025 · Miss Manners does not understand why people are so eager to speak about money at all the wrong times, but are suddenly shy when it is perfectly proper. When asking for a single check, …

Judith Martin (née Perlman; born September 13, 1938 [1]), better known by the pen name Miss Manners, is an American columnist, author, and etiquette authority.

Oct 10, 2025 · Miss Manners is aware that this approach puts the focus on scheduling, not etiquette. But it will make the point that your time is valuable and not available on command.

4 days ago · DEAR MISS MANNERS: I regret to tell you that, in the modern parlance, “You’re welcome” isn’t polite. Related Articles Miss Manners: What should I say to a woman who has defaced herself ...

Apr 16, 2025 · In today’s nugget, published by UExpress, Miss Manners shares her insight on when to speak up and resolve a conflict (gracefully), and when it’s best to avoid stirring the pot entirely.

2 days ago · DEAR MISS MANNERS: Nearly three decades ago, my husband committed a serious crime. He faced the consequences, served his sentence, and has since built a quiet, responsible life. …

Aug 1, 2025 · Miss Manners commends you for your desire to reach out to this accused criminal. But perhaps you are emboldened by the fact that they are not likely to rejoin society anytime soon.