According to Esther Perel, there are often 2 conflicting needs in a romantic relationship — the need for security and the need for adventure. Here’s how to balance both: http://t.ted.com/hJ8ulVC | TED
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According to Esther Perel, there are often 2 conflicting needs in a romantic relationship — the need for security and the need for adventure. Here’s how to balance both: http://t.ted.com/hJ8ulVC | TED
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Unlock Deeper Connections Transform conflicts into catalysts for growth & intimacy. Master conflict resolution to empower your relationships and yourself. Join the Conflict Course today! | Esther Perel
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Unlock Deeper Connections Transform conflicts into catalysts for growth & intimacy. Master conflict resolution to empower your relationships and yourself. Join the Conflict Course today! | Esther Perel
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Couples argue, but what next? Move beyond blame and towards understanding with Esther Perel's course. Learn how to turn conflict into connection. | Esther Perel
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Couples argue, but what next? Move beyond blame and towards understanding with Esther Perel's course. Learn how to turn conflict into connection. | Esther Perel
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Where's home? As I travel this week, I was inspired by a beautiful TED Talk from Taiye Selasi to ask not where you are from but where you are local, and that resonated with me. Where we're from can be quite a limiting descriptor, whereas where we are local tells a fascinating story about where we feel at home, with whom we form our relationships, what rituals and cultural customs we hold dear and what restrictions dictate how we move through these places. Through the lens of this last year, we m
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Where's home? As I travel this week, I was inspired by a beautiful TED Talk from Taiye Selasi to ask not where you are from but where you are local, and that resonated with me. Where we're from can be quite a limiting descriptor, whereas where we are local tells a fascinating story about where we feel at home, with whom we form our relationships, what rituals and cultural customs we hold dear and what restrictions dictate how we move through these places. Through the lens of this last year, we m
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✨ Imagine one conversation, one session, that changes how you view the moment we're collectively experiencing. Sessions Live 2025: Mating in the MetaCrisis starts this week—and it's not too late to join. 🎟️ Your virtual ticket gets you: ✅ Two days of powerful talks workshops ✅ Access to 90 days of on-demand replays ✅ An exclusive LIVE webinar with Esther Perel tomorrow, Tuesday, April 22—only for virtual attendees This isn’t just a livestream. It’s your seat at the table with 20 leading voices
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✨ Imagine one conversation, one session, that changes how you view the moment we're collectively experiencing. Sessions Live 2025: Mating in the MetaCrisis starts this week—and it's not too late to join. 🎟️ Your virtual ticket gets you: ✅ Two days of powerful talks workshops ✅ Access to 90 days of on-demand replays ✅ An exclusive LIVE webinar with Esther Perel tomorrow, Tuesday, April 22—only for virtual attendees This isn’t just a livestream. It’s your seat at the table with 20 leading voices
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Can I share something between us? My digital community Entre Nous with Esther Perel is now live on Substack. For years, I’ve asked “Where should we begin?” Now, I’m opening a new space to keep the conversation going—with weekly content, reflections, and behind-the-scenes access. ✨ What you’ll get as a free subscriber: • Weekly podcast episodes • Monthly newsletters • Companion resources for a limited time • Early access to offers • Livestreams with special guests 🔒 What you’ll unlock as a paid
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Can I share something between us? My digital community Entre Nous with Esther Perel is now live on Substack. For years, I’ve asked “Where should we begin?” Now, I’m opening a new space to keep the conversation going—with weekly content, reflections, and behind-the-scenes access. ✨ What you’ll get as a free subscriber: • Weekly podcast episodes • Monthly newsletters • Companion resources for a limited time • Early access to offers • Livestreams with special guests 🔒 What you’ll unlock as a paid
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The secret to desire in a long-term relationship
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The secret to desire in a long-term relationship
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Bonus: Relationships at work with Esther Perel
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As we continue to talk about work friends, I'm sharing more behind-the-scenes reels from my friends and colleagues who spoke earlier this year at my annual clinical conference. What are your thoughts on this share from Helena Hansen, an MD, Ph.D. psychiatrist-anthropologist, and Professor and Interim Chair of Psychiatry and Interim Director of the Semel Institute for Neuroscience and Human Behavior at UCLA? Helena spoke of the relationship people have with their drug of choice, a powerful insigh
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Have you gotten your ticket for Sessions Live, my annual clinical conference happening May 15 & 16? Join me live in NYC or anywhere in the world with a virtual ticket. Our theme: Desire and Its Disruptions. Our goal: Gather leading experts to share tools that will support our work and lives. 90 day on demand access after the event. Clinicians: 8 CE credits. Buy your ticket: https://bit.ly/48Mofvh | Esther Perel
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On this week's episode of Where Should We Begin?, a woman is grappling with the aftermath of a tumultuous relationship with a narcissistic partner. First, he love bombed her and made her feel special--only to turn manipulative and aggressive in a time of need following her father's death. She doesn't know how to bounce back or how she will learn to trust again, which we discuss in this latest episode of the podcast. Have you ever been "love bombed"? Enjoy the full podcast on YouTube now: https:/
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We are just two days away from our Sessions Live virtual conference, and today is the last day to reserve your ticket. On Saturday, November 5th, you will step inside my office as a brilliant lineup of colleagues demonstrate the value of supervision and critique my work. It will be a completely unique experience as I open up a video session and a live critique for the first time. I’m feeling excited and full of anticipation as I bring this edgy new format to my work and community, and I look for
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On this week's episode of the podcast, a couple sits down with me to untangle trust, control, and intimacy after becoming parents. But is the language they're using and the amount of analysis helpful? Their love is strong, but everyday tensions spiral into power struggles. Join us as we explore moving beyond the labels to find a new connection. Watch on YouTube here: https://youtu.be/cVaC3qEhsdc | Esther Perel
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Sessions Live 2025: Mating in the Metacrisis kicks off TOMORROW. Join us virtually for two days of training, deep conversation, insight, and connection in a world on edge. If you’ve been thinking about it, this is your moment. 💻 Join from anywhere. 📺 Watch live or on your own time. ⏳ Replays available for 90 days. If you care about relationships—at home, at work, in therapy, or in culture—this experience is for you. Let’s explore eroticism, polarization, and connection together. 🎟️ https://ww
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Someone said to me, quite certainly: "A crush: by nature they're light and fun and inconsequential." And I reminded them that the experience of a crush can be all-consuming. Tell me: What have your experiences been? And for more thoughts on crushes, listen to the latest episode of the podcast, on having a crush at work, available on YouTube https://bit.ly/4ay7ljQ or Substack : https://bit.ly/4ao8RVh | Esther Perel
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On this week's podcast: Since the age of 8, she’s been the one holding her mother together and shouldering adult responsibilities long before her time. Now, as an adult herself, she’s ready to step out of the caretaker role and invite her mother to finally be the parent. Together, we explore how to loosen these deeply entrenched dynamics and create space for a more balanced, reciprocal relationship. Watch on YouTube https://youtu.be/fSraOqUqQl0?si=w7Y06LfMKdWWoaD8 or Subscribe on Substack for bo
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Last week, I shared something I've never done before. On the podcast, I reconnected with a couple two years after we first spoke. They had been living in separate countries due to the war in Ukraine, and are now reunited. And while we were speaking. I asked them to change; to freshen up so to speak, and come back to the session. I gave them 4 minutes, so they could experience how changing their clothes might impact how they felt. But here's what is brand new: On Substack, last week, we shared th
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The Key to a Thriving Relationship with Esther Perel
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Esther Duflo: Social experiments to fight poverty
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Esther Perel Explains Why Your Partner Criticizes You
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Esther Perel | Modern Love and Relationships | SXSW 2018
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Unlock Relationship Secrets: Esther Perel on Letting Go | Audible Expert Interviews
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Esther Perel: The routines, rituals and boundaries we need in stressful times | TED
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The Masculinity Paradox: Terry Real, Doug Braun-Harvey, Erlanger Turner - Sessions Live 2018
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